Ever since I realized the self-MySelf, I have come to know that there is always a comparision or more eloquently say a reference for what we do.
Sometimes we compare and start working or work and start comparing….
Either way we require some standard/guide/reference/example to judge the pros and cons or the quality of our work. Well, coming to my case, the latter one better suits my nature. So, in the process I have come across the various standards or metrics but the one which is hidden or indirectly influencing all of my activities, my thoughts, goals, dreams is one.
The one and only one and that is “The way I have been brought up”. Even this is not the direct one. Recently in my routine self-introspection, I found something more, the underlying one behind all these---“A Person”. And he is
An Epitome of Perfection, a Blend of Naturality, a Visionary by Birth, an Exemplary through his Life, an Extra Ordinary in his Performance, an Exceptional in the Existence,
Meticulous by Nature, Level-headed in Judgement and above all a Great Thinker and born Role-model for the Generations forever.
And that is none other than my “Pedananna” ---
“Shri Ganduri Venu Gopala Krishna Murthy”.
Its not an exaggeration saying-“Has it not been a day without spelling his name in our home.” Well, in the process of consolidating such an Exclusively Exceptional Leader in our entire family, though its evidential he is a perfectionist, I’ve dared to take other stride --- to look at him as critics as I don't want to give a chance to others to do so, which generally does when one praises others. And, believe me out of many things I’ve observed, very few or seldom are the mistakes I can find with him. Though we know clearly that they are out of(against) his conscience and due to some family pressures.
We do accept it and appreciate Him because “We as a Family is nothing but a society living under the same roof. And the Society by definition is always a paradox.”!!
Generally, if we achieve something great, we feel its all because of our dedicated efforts.
I’m not denying that. But, what I feel is, all our achievements or failures are more or less shaped by our elders’ power. The power can be anything. It can be their decision-making power, problem solving power, thinking power or their influencing power. It is this power in Him that made our entire family prosperous now. And I promise, it would be like this for future generations also as Pedananna,
”You have sown seeds that are recurrably reproducible years together”.
Sometimes we compare and start working or work and start comparing….
Either way we require some standard/guide/reference/example to judge the pros and cons or the quality of our work. Well, coming to my case, the latter one better suits my nature. So, in the process I have come across the various standards or metrics but the one which is hidden or indirectly influencing all of my activities, my thoughts, goals, dreams is one.
The one and only one and that is “The way I have been brought up”. Even this is not the direct one. Recently in my routine self-introspection, I found something more, the underlying one behind all these---“A Person”. And he is
An Epitome of Perfection, a Blend of Naturality, a Visionary by Birth, an Exemplary through his Life, an Extra Ordinary in his Performance, an Exceptional in the Existence,
Meticulous by Nature, Level-headed in Judgement and above all a Great Thinker and born Role-model for the Generations forever.
And that is none other than my “Pedananna” ---
Its not an exaggeration saying-“Has it not been a day without spelling his name in our home.” Well, in the process of consolidating such an Exclusively Exceptional Leader in our entire family, though its evidential he is a perfectionist, I’ve dared to take other stride --- to look at him as critics as I don't want to give a chance to others to do so, which generally does when one praises others. And, believe me out of many things I’ve observed, very few or seldom are the mistakes I can find with him. Though we know clearly that they are out of(against) his conscience and due to some family pressures.
We do accept it and appreciate Him because “We as a Family is nothing but a society living under the same roof. And the Society by definition is always a paradox.”!!
Generally, if we achieve something great, we feel its all because of our dedicated efforts.
I’m not denying that. But, what I feel is, all our achievements or failures are more or less shaped by our elders’ power. The power can be anything. It can be their decision-making power, problem solving power, thinking power or their influencing power. It is this power in Him that made our entire family prosperous now. And I promise, it would be like this for future generations also as Pedananna,
”You have sown seeds that are recurrably reproducible years together”.
4 comments:
Yes, We mankind have to follow a perfection-
But at the end of the day when we introspect we give credit to certain things which are emotionally connected to us.
elders have always been our guide...
discipline is what i see in our family...
sticking to elders words no matter what we have in our minds... finally realizing their presence of mind in their decisions... this is what i have observed in our family...
Hi Latha,
Its been late commenting on your blogs, though late than never.
Esp. for this blog, as WE are connected.
You took a subtler example of perfection (though not easy to say)
and put your entire understanding forefront.
Great to see you blogging the right way. Keep up the passion and enthusiasm!!!! Yo have a great way ahead.
Thanks akka....keep visiting n share ur opinions !
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